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Why It's Time to Rethink Sexual Health Education

Recent studies show that abstinence-only and STI (Sexually Transmitted Infections) prevention-focused educational frameworks are falling short in changing risky sexual behaviors for the better. And honestly, it’s not surprising. Fear-based education can only take us so far. What if, instead, we embraced a perspective that views sexual health as part of our whole health—empowering individuals to exercise bodily autonomy and prioritize well-being?

For far too long, the conversation around sexual health has been dominated by shame and avoidance rather than freedom and understanding. This culture of silence has stifled our ability to have open, honest, and non-judgmental discussions about sexual choices. Schools often focus on abstinence or, if they’re feeling progressive, the importance of preventing pregnancies and diseases. But let’s be real—what about our sexual satisfaction?

Shifting the Focus: From Shame to Empowerment

Wouldn’t you like to know how to care for your body in a way that not only protects but also allows you to enjoy sex? For me, even though my parents were more open about sex than most, I still missed out on crucial lessons. I didn’t understand the concept of consent, how to communicate my desires with a partner, or how to feel safe enough to engage in sex for my own pleasure.

Unfortunately, it’s not just families and schools that fall short. Research reveals that many healthcare providers avoid initiating comprehensive sexual health discussions because they assume patients would feel uncomfortable, or worse, they don’t feel equipped to handle the conversation. Can you imagine going to a doctor who doesn’t think your sexual wellness is worth addressing?

At S&S EDU, we’re here to change that narrative. We believe sexual health is more than avoiding consequences—it’s about thriving. It’s about knowing your body, understanding consent, and being equipped to have conversations that prioritize your pleasure and satisfaction.

Join the Conversation: Let’s Redefine Whole Health

I’m thrilled to be part of new initiatives that position sexual wellness as an integral part of whole health. Picture this: open discussions about difficulties reaching orgasm, guidance on safely exploring new experiences, and education on how to advocate for your desires. Imagine healthcare providers who ask you about these topics—not to judge, but to help.

To push this forward, I’ll be hosting a roundtable discussion at this year’s National Sex Ed Conference in Philadelphia on Thursday, December 12, 2024. The subject? Incorporating Sexual Health Assessment in All Departments of Patient Care. If you’re attending, stop by and join the conversation. Can’t make it? Don’t worry—we’ll be sharing key insights on social media.

Take the Lead in Your Health

If your healthcare provider isn’t ready to have these conversations, we’ve got you covered. S&S EDU will be providing talking points to empower you to take charge of your health and start the dialogue yourself. Because your sexual wellness matters—and you deserve to feel seen, heard, and supported.

Stay connected with us on social media, where we’ll be breaking down guidelines for healthcare professionals and sharing resources to help you advocate for your sexual health. Together, we’re building a future where sexual freedom aligns with biblical values—because taking care of your body is a form of stewardship.

Here’s to whole health—and whole-hearted conversations about sexual wellness.